1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,676 INTERVIEWER 1: Would you know who John Lennon was? 2 00:00:02,676 --> 00:00:05,170 LEAH: John. INTERVIEWER 2: How about Marilyn Monroe? 3 00:00:05,170 --> 00:00:07,691 ANDREW: Marilyn Monroe. INTERVIEWER 1: JFK? 4 00:00:08,089 --> 00:00:09,807 BECKY: Doesn't really ring any bells. 5 00:00:10,167 --> 00:00:12,961 (GUITAR PLAYING) 6 00:00:12,961 --> 00:00:16,062 LEAH: We are the Amish. You know us, 7 00:00:16,062 --> 00:00:19,675 as the people who don't drive cars, who favor log beards, 8 00:00:19,675 --> 00:00:22,945 and wide brim pats. And enjoy barn raising. 9 00:00:23,655 --> 00:00:26,662 But you've almost certainly never heard of rumspringa. 10 00:00:26,725 --> 00:00:27,733 (WHIP LASH) 11 00:00:28,334 --> 00:00:31,590 In our language, Rumspringa means running around 12 00:00:31,914 --> 00:00:35,187 and for some, it's the most critical time of their life. 13 00:00:36,182 --> 00:00:38,850 Before being baptized into the Amish Church, 14 00:00:39,204 --> 00:00:43,308 Rumspringa gives Amish teenagers, a chance to visit the outside world. 15 00:00:43,926 --> 00:00:46,749 Trying out activities that are normally forbidden. 16 00:00:48,296 --> 00:00:51,538 My name is Leah Miller. Me and my brother, Andrew, 17 00:00:51,538 --> 00:00:54,354 and three Amish friends from the Mid-West of America 18 00:00:54,753 --> 00:00:58,330 are bidding farewell to our families and setting off 19 00:00:58,383 --> 00:01:01,787 on a once in a lifetime adventure to Great Britain. 20 00:01:03,337 --> 00:01:06,350 (HARD MUSIC) 21 00:01:06,350 --> 00:01:09,263 We're going to be living with four very different types 22 00:01:09,263 --> 00:01:12,901 of British teenagers. I've never really met people that 23 00:01:13,256 --> 00:01:15,377 I had a lot to do with that we're black. 24 00:01:15,566 --> 00:01:18,551 Sharing our God fearing and clean living values. 25 00:01:18,551 --> 00:01:21,613 JERRY: They don't believe that Jesus is the son of God. 26 00:01:22,162 --> 00:01:25,180 They believe in some other guy. SPEAKER 1: What of she'd meet up 27 00:01:25,180 --> 00:01:27,912 with another man and she'd just not wanna come back home? 28 00:01:27,912 --> 00:01:31,210 SPEAKER 2: It's a worry of the possibility of being molested. 29 00:01:31,892 --> 00:01:35,499 BECKY: I read about extreme activity like this, I guess. 30 00:01:35,499 --> 00:01:40,898 And I think my family seems far away. LEAH: I wonder what we'll discover 31 00:01:41,665 --> 00:01:44,364 and whether the experience would make us rethink 32 00:01:44,364 --> 00:01:47,598 our Amish way of life. LEON: I'm not hoping 33 00:01:47,598 --> 00:01:50,157 to get way out of hand over there, but it's pretty much 34 00:01:50,157 --> 00:01:53,810 my last chance to do something like that. 35 00:01:53,987 --> 00:01:56,301 BECKY: Jesus will be coming back before too long. 36 00:01:56,301 --> 00:01:58,410 Because of the way things are going in the world. 37 00:01:58,410 --> 00:01:59,778 It's just terrible. 38 00:02:08,916 --> 00:02:12,663 (DISTANT CHATTER) 39 00:02:12,682 --> 00:02:15,640 SPEAKER 3: Now, it's time to say goodbye to Andrew 40 00:02:15,640 --> 00:02:16,293 and Leon for a while. 41 00:02:17,500 --> 00:02:20,458 And we must always be mindful to pray for them 42 00:02:20,458 --> 00:02:21,559 while they're gone. 43 00:02:22,433 --> 00:02:26,210 (SPIRITUAL MUSIC PLAYS) 44 00:02:27,675 --> 00:02:31,831 Keep your hands over this group. and especially over our children, 45 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,774 as they step forth into a new venture. 46 00:02:35,952 --> 00:02:38,554 LEON: I really don't know anything about England. 47 00:02:39,540 --> 00:02:42,240 Some people were telling me that drug were legal. 48 00:02:43,149 --> 00:02:48,370 Just a little concerned about it. ANDREW: I will take my German Bible, 49 00:02:48,844 --> 00:02:53,340 and then my regular study Bible. And I wanna take this. 50 00:02:55,218 --> 00:03:00,559 I wanna take this along too. Being is something I enjoy doing. 51 00:03:01,868 --> 00:03:04,214 JERRY: Now, here should be everything I need. 52 00:03:04,214 --> 00:03:08,158 It feels great to have a passport. Feels like fredom. 53 00:03:08,433 --> 00:03:09,960 (SPIRITUAL SONG CONTINUES) 54 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:11,212 # Now is the time 55 00:03:11,655 --> 00:03:14,464 # Redeeming man-kind 56 00:03:14,893 --> 00:03:19,567 # Take up the cross and (INAUDIBLE) # 57 00:03:22,538 --> 00:03:23,339 SPEAKER 3: Bye. 58 00:03:23,339 --> 00:03:25,271 # Suffer the loss 59 00:03:25,838 --> 00:03:31,540 # Gone is only a few # 60 00:03:32,939 --> 00:03:34,941 LEAH: None of us, have ever flown before 61 00:03:34,941 --> 00:03:37,664 and this will be the first time we've left our families 62 00:03:37,664 --> 00:03:41,836 and our home-country of America. We're about to face the unknown. 63 00:03:43,150 --> 00:03:46,395 All we can do is put our trust in God's hands. 64 00:03:46,566 --> 00:03:48,430 (SPIRITUAL SONG PLAYS) 65 00:03:48,430 --> 00:03:50,871 # For the spirit of heaven 66 00:03:50,871 --> 00:03:55,453 # Has lift up your voice to God # 67 00:03:55,941 --> 00:03:57,911 Everything is really, really small. 68 00:03:58,395 --> 00:04:01,797 It's hard to believe we're this far away from the ground. 69 00:04:02,414 --> 00:04:04,626 ANDREW: I think it's pretty awesome out there. 70 00:04:04,951 --> 00:04:10,190 SPEAKER 3: 1 Peter 5:8, be sober, be vigilant, 71 00:04:10,495 --> 00:04:13,807 because your adversary the devil as a roaring lion, 72 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,242 waketh about seeking whom he may devour. 73 00:04:18,247 --> 00:04:20,645 (BEEP) AIR HOSTESS: Ladies and gentlemen, 74 00:04:21,350 --> 00:04:23,680 the Captain has turned on, the fasten seatbelt sign. 75 00:04:24,700 --> 00:04:26,871 Please return to your seat and fasten your seatbelt. 76 00:04:27,420 --> 00:04:28,335 Thank you. 77 00:04:31,137 --> 00:04:33,493 LEAH: We're gonna spend seven days in London. 78 00:04:34,148 --> 00:04:37,204 It's gonna be our first time to experience a capital city. 79 00:04:40,269 --> 00:04:42,472 ANDREW: I bet we're gonna see a lot of that 80 00:04:42,472 --> 00:04:44,199 and hear a lot of that. JERRY: Yeah. 81 00:04:44,595 --> 00:04:46,818 BECKY: It's gonna be ringing in our dreams. 82 00:04:46,967 --> 00:04:49,570 Lots of noise. ANDREW: Lots of noise, yap. 83 00:04:56,344 --> 00:05:00,125 BECKY: I'll probably survive for a week but I wouldn't want to live here. 84 00:05:01,361 --> 00:05:03,525 LEAH: We'll be staying with a group of teenagers 85 00:05:03,525 --> 00:05:05,964 from the South of the City. We're hoping 86 00:05:05,964 --> 00:05:08,796 they would show us what city life is really like. 87 00:05:10,466 --> 00:05:18,163 (CHATTER) 88 00:05:20,135 --> 00:05:22,969 There isn't space for all of us to stay in one house, 89 00:05:23,264 --> 00:05:27,800 so we're splitting up. The Amish boys are staying with Ryan. 90 00:05:27,669 --> 00:05:29,974 RYAN: This is Jerry. SPEAKER: Hi, Jerry. 91 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:32,207 RYAN: This is Leon. SPEAKER: Hi, Leon. 92 00:05:32,295 --> 00:05:35,719 RYAN: And this is... ANDREW: Andrew. 93 00:05:35,719 --> 00:05:37,201 SPEAKER: (CROSSTALK) Hi, Andrew. 94 00:05:37,201 --> 00:05:39,274 LEAH: And us girls are staying with Sabrina. 95 00:05:39,589 --> 00:05:41,765 JULIE: I've been tiding up, especially for you. 96 00:05:41,765 --> 00:05:45,618 (CROSSTALK) SPEAKER 4: So really, 97 00:05:45,618 --> 00:05:48,892 make yourselves at home. Eat and drink to your heart's content. 98 00:05:49,770 --> 00:05:51,188 The alcohol is mine though. (LAUGHTER). 99 00:05:51,188 --> 00:05:53,774 You can't touch none of that. JERRY: OK. 100 00:05:54,241 --> 00:05:57,484 LEAH: We've never seen such small and cramped houses. 101 00:05:58,910 --> 00:06:01,248 Back home, we have big family, 102 00:06:01,248 --> 00:06:04,783 so we need spacious homes. We have a communal room, 103 00:06:05,890 --> 00:06:08,270 were we all eat together, and a quiet room, 104 00:06:08,299 --> 00:06:11,618 where we read the Bible. Sometimes, there's a school room 105 00:06:11,875 --> 00:06:14,318 for teaching the younger members of the family. 106 00:06:14,670 --> 00:06:16,826 And a washing room for cleaning our clothes. 107 00:06:17,421 --> 00:06:20,923 Our bedrooms are large. And some of us don't have curtains. 108 00:06:21,602 --> 00:06:26,350 That's just the way it is. Our lives are about space and calm. 109 00:06:30,192 --> 00:06:32,140 JULIE: This is Sabrina's room. SABRINA: This is my room. 110 00:06:32,140 --> 00:06:34,449 JULIE: Her little box room, is only a tiny room. 111 00:06:34,449 --> 00:06:36,770 BECKY: Really small. SABRINA: These pictures, 112 00:06:37,905 --> 00:06:40,255 are from when I used to do modeling when I was little. 113 00:06:40,255 --> 00:06:41,918 SPEAKER: OK. SABRINA: So, there's me 114 00:06:41,918 --> 00:06:45,388 when I was about nine. I was about five there. 115 00:06:46,721 --> 00:06:49,901 This is me and Amy in Paris. There's Ryan as well. 116 00:06:50,103 --> 00:06:53,281 BECKY: When he was little. SABRINA: (CROSSTALK) that's my brother. 117 00:06:54,419 --> 00:06:56,177 BECKY: So when did you start? How old were you? 118 00:06:56,177 --> 00:06:58,136 SABRINA: When I got my first job, I was three and a half. 119 00:06:58,136 --> 00:07:00,418 BECKY: Oh, wow. LEAH: That is cute. 120 00:07:01,997 --> 00:07:04,660 AMY: In the Amish community is there any modeling 121 00:07:04,660 --> 00:07:06,939 that goes on? LEAH: I don't think, 122 00:07:06,939 --> 00:07:09,550 I ever heard about people. BECKY: I guess because the Amish 123 00:07:09,550 --> 00:07:13,459 (INAUDIBLE) cloth anyway. So, and they're not like, 124 00:07:13,459 --> 00:07:17,612 as much into fashion. Actually they don't follow fashion at all. 125 00:07:18,460 --> 00:07:20,862 So I guess, it's quite unnecessary. LEAH: We don't do it. 126 00:07:21,592 --> 00:07:23,243 BECKY: It's not an Amish thing. 127 00:07:27,357 --> 00:07:30,418 LEAH: Our new British friends want to show us Amish, 128 00:07:30,418 --> 00:07:33,658 a game they call, Rounders in their local park. 129 00:07:35,630 --> 00:07:36,670 SABRINA: Do you know how to play rounders? 130 00:07:36,670 --> 00:07:40,700 ANDREW: Like ball, (CROSSTALK). 131 00:07:41,158 --> 00:07:43,463 SABRINA: Becky, you can be with Ryan and Tunde. 132 00:07:43,463 --> 00:07:46,198 We're gonna be filled in. Too low. 133 00:07:47,590 --> 00:07:50,773 Oh, that was close. (LAUGHTER) 134 00:07:50,773 --> 00:07:55,385 LEAH: I've never really met people that I had to do with that were black. 135 00:07:55,725 --> 00:07:58,970 And then we really got close to them as far as, 136 00:07:58,970 --> 00:08:00,991 personally getting to know them really well, 137 00:08:00,991 --> 00:08:04,481 and spending a lot of time with them. But I look forward to doing that. 138 00:08:04,481 --> 00:08:06,153 I think it's interesting. 139 00:08:09,692 --> 00:08:11,644 SPEAKER 5: We're doing good guys. 140 00:08:14,972 --> 00:08:17,780 SABRINA: He's gonna hit it far, isn't he? 141 00:08:17,780 --> 00:08:19,506 Oh my God, you better be ready to run guys. 142 00:08:23,915 --> 00:08:25,148 Are you craxy? 143 00:08:35,518 --> 00:08:38,366 Can you even catch? RYAN: They said (INAUDIBLE) game 144 00:08:38,366 --> 00:08:41,760 (INAUDIBLE) better than us. I'm going out first. 145 00:08:41,932 --> 00:08:46,145 I'm not playing no more. I'm upset (LAUGHS) 146 00:08:47,116 --> 00:08:51,789 JERRY: Nice hit. SPEAKER 6: I thought they'd be 147 00:08:51,789 --> 00:08:54,613 quite reserved but quiet people, 148 00:08:54,613 --> 00:08:56,536 but quite (INAUDIBLE), quite friendly. 149 00:08:57,740 --> 00:09:00,278 Yeah, like what they're wearing is like, is nothing unusual, 150 00:09:00,278 --> 00:09:02,165 nothing we haven't really seen before. 151 00:09:02,987 --> 00:09:05,101 Obviously, it's not the stylish of clothing, 152 00:09:05,585 --> 00:09:07,874 ANDREW: (INAUDIBLE) city people, they might, 153 00:09:07,874 --> 00:09:10,465 you know, be scared of bugs and things like that. 154 00:09:10,465 --> 00:09:13,492 Where country people are used to. I mean, it's (INAUDIBLE) 155 00:09:13,492 --> 00:09:16,670 things like that they don't... they're used to having 156 00:09:16,178 --> 00:09:17,445 life pretty easy. 157 00:09:21,780 --> 00:09:24,405 RYAN: For now, they're alright, they haven't really seen anything. 158 00:09:24,405 --> 00:09:26,724 So far, we've only been like, in a park, 159 00:09:26,724 --> 00:09:28,617 this is probably what they're used to see a lot of green. 160 00:09:28,617 --> 00:09:31,516 Probably when we show them our things that we do, 161 00:09:32,118 --> 00:09:34,953 is when they might start to get a bit, "What's that?" 162 00:09:38,842 --> 00:09:40,996 LEAH: Hear in London, we're learning about 163 00:09:40,996 --> 00:09:43,871 British teenage city life. It's a little different 164 00:09:44,172 --> 00:09:48,827 to things back home. Tuks, one of our new British friends, 165 00:09:49,506 --> 00:09:52,293 wants to show us what he calls his estate. 166 00:09:53,589 --> 00:09:56,963 TUKS: Every building here, have been involved in something. 167 00:09:57,616 --> 00:10:00,580 We had good times for, I think, good times lasted 168 00:10:00,580 --> 00:10:03,505 probably one summer. After that, the flats began. 169 00:10:04,131 --> 00:10:06,642 This was our hotspot. Just near there, 170 00:10:07,606 --> 00:10:09,928 a friend of mine was stabbed. She was at the wrong place 171 00:10:09,928 --> 00:10:11,882 at the wrong time. I'm not even sure 172 00:10:11,882 --> 00:10:14,492 how many times she was stabbed but it was a lot of times. 173 00:10:14,492 --> 00:10:18,286 And she was killed. JERRY: I never heard of an Amish person 174 00:10:18,286 --> 00:10:20,896 doing a crime. LEAH: A disagreement might come up, 175 00:10:21,170 --> 00:10:24,759 you know, killing wasn't an option. JERRY: If they do get, 176 00:10:25,110 --> 00:10:27,750 even caught just taking a piece of candy from (INAUDIBLE) 177 00:10:27,750 --> 00:10:31,602 or something, they'll get taught that 178 00:10:31,602 --> 00:10:34,765 that's not right. TUKS: Alright, this was actually, 179 00:10:34,765 --> 00:10:38,341 I'm not too sure of the destination, I think it was across that side 180 00:10:38,341 --> 00:10:41,735 behind this building. A young man was shot in his head. 181 00:10:42,213 --> 00:10:46,317 I knew the boy, I knew his mother, I knew his friends, his family. 182 00:10:47,370 --> 00:10:49,360 There's alcohols who live all over the place. 183 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,917 There's rapists, there's drug addicts, everywhere. 184 00:10:52,896 --> 00:10:58,673 BECKY: When I think of my childhood, I think of sunny days, 185 00:10:58,673 --> 00:11:02,487 and fields and flowers and birds nests and, 186 00:11:03,820 --> 00:11:04,832 because I was very much an outdoor girl. 187 00:11:04,832 --> 00:11:09,673 I love to be outside with my dad. And just, you know, 188 00:11:09,975 --> 00:11:12,683 you saying like, right over there somebody got stabbed. 189 00:11:13,190 --> 00:11:16,145 And he was like right over here, you know, somebody got shot and killed. 190 00:11:16,145 --> 00:11:18,560 Is really kind of creepy. 191 00:11:25,262 --> 00:11:28,233 LEAH: In our Amish homes, we're always working hard. 192 00:11:28,233 --> 00:11:31,720 Busy doing chores. But the young people we're staying with, 193 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,301 pass their time at home in a very different way. 194 00:11:37,604 --> 00:11:41,528 JERRY: We really haven't done much. They're playing video games 195 00:11:41,528 --> 00:11:44,922 but I find that boring. I'd rather be out doing something 196 00:11:45,816 --> 00:11:49,242 that's active. At home, we can go out in the barn, 197 00:11:49,242 --> 00:11:52,440 and work in the barn, or stuff like that. 198 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,338 Here there is no barn. RYAN: (INAUDIBLE) the girls 199 00:11:54,338 --> 00:11:55,599 are saying, she goes to bed like, 200 00:11:55,599 --> 00:11:58,138 everyday at 10:30 and wakes up at like 6:00. 201 00:11:58,138 --> 00:11:59,984 Whereas me, I couldn't tell you what time I go to bed. 202 00:11:59,984 --> 00:12:02,880 Imma go to bed like, one day I might go 12:00am 203 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,550 one day I might go 4:00 in the morning. Another day 204 00:12:04,550 --> 00:12:06,256 I might go 9:00 at night, you know. SPEAKER 7: You know, 205 00:12:06,256 --> 00:12:09,898 you can sleep in till 12:00, 2:00 in the afternoon. 206 00:12:10,950 --> 00:12:13,154 But with them, it's sort of, everyday is a routine, 207 00:12:13,154 --> 00:12:16,260 routine, routine. SPEAKER 6: Yeah, they seem to relaxed. 208 00:12:16,260 --> 00:12:19,218 That's all I can say really. That's a good word for it, relaxed. 209 00:12:19,218 --> 00:12:21,527 Chilled out, doing what they want. 210 00:12:22,788 --> 00:12:28,275 SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 6:9, how long will thou sleep oh sluggard, 211 00:12:28,633 --> 00:12:31,194 when will thou arise from thy sleep? 212 00:12:36,751 --> 00:12:39,476 LEAH: As Amish, we don't really have free time. 213 00:12:39,797 --> 00:12:43,830 We start work at the age of three. Or sometimes, earlier. 214 00:12:43,637 --> 00:12:46,744 If children are taught to be responsible, 215 00:12:46,744 --> 00:12:49,572 and have responsibilities and choice when they're growing up, 216 00:12:49,572 --> 00:12:52,155 a lot of them kind of adapt to working. 217 00:12:52,459 --> 00:12:56,920 JERRY: I think work is a great way to keep kids busy, 218 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:57,634 entertained, and out of trouble. 219 00:12:58,233 --> 00:13:02,331 LEAH: We're busy in the fields, in the house, the gardens and the barn. 220 00:13:02,874 --> 00:13:07,377 Every Amish family has a barn. Once we've left school at 14, 221 00:13:07,741 --> 00:13:10,473 our work routine starts when the sun comes up 222 00:13:10,473 --> 00:13:12,139 and ends when it goes down. 223 00:13:17,768 --> 00:13:20,972 Ever since as Amish fled persecution in Switzerland 224 00:13:20,972 --> 00:13:23,752 in the 17th century and settled in America, 225 00:13:24,238 --> 00:13:26,622 work has been an important part of our lives. 226 00:13:26,990 --> 00:13:29,963 It enables us to be as self-sufficient as possible 227 00:13:30,274 --> 00:13:33,971 and to live separate from the world. BECKY: I think it gives you 228 00:13:33,971 --> 00:13:34,900 a sense of security 229 00:13:34,900 --> 00:13:37,420 because you don't have to depend on everybody else. 230 00:13:38,299 --> 00:13:42,798 LEAH: But it's also part of our faith. SPEAKER 3: Matthew 11:28, 231 00:13:44,900 --> 00:13:47,286 come on to me all ye that labor and are heavy laden, 232 00:13:47,703 --> 00:13:49,409 and I will give you rest. 233 00:14:05,357 --> 00:14:07,755 SABRINA: Have you been on the tube before? BECKY: No. 234 00:14:07,755 --> 00:14:09,806 SABRINA: Have you been on a train before like an overglance. 235 00:14:09,806 --> 00:14:11,460 BECKY: No. SABRINA: (INAUDIBLE) like the train, 236 00:14:11,460 --> 00:14:13,533 overground. The tube is basically underground, 237 00:14:13,852 --> 00:14:16,404 so you can't see outside the window. There's all black. 238 00:14:16,404 --> 00:14:17,266 LEAH: (INAUDIBLE) SABRINA: Yeah, 239 00:14:17,266 --> 00:14:20,500 basically, you're going through a tunnel on the train. 240 00:14:23,100 --> 00:14:24,834 TUNDE: It's a bit chilly down here, boy. BARAH: It's windy here. 241 00:14:24,834 --> 00:14:26,748 SABRINA: It's windy. LEAH: Where does it come from? 242 00:14:26,748 --> 00:14:28,197 SABRINA: I don't know. 243 00:14:31,503 --> 00:14:34,452 SPEAKER: Train (INAUDIBLE) on the door please, on the door. 244 00:14:34,792 --> 00:14:41,990 (CHATTER) 245 00:14:56,793 --> 00:15:00,824 BECKY: I notice that about one out of three had headsets on. 246 00:15:01,532 --> 00:15:04,260 Isolating themselves. It's kind of amazing how, 247 00:15:04,260 --> 00:15:09,580 you can be in such a big crowd and be totally isolated. 248 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,457 LEAH: Now, a lot of people just have like a straight stare, 249 00:15:11,457 --> 00:15:13,955 they know where they're going, everybody's moving. 250 00:15:13,955 --> 00:15:16,442 You see hundrens of thousands of people one day. 251 00:15:16,442 --> 00:15:18,556 You don't really get to know anyone. 252 00:15:21,914 --> 00:15:24,109 BECKY: You're never this close to vehicles in America? 253 00:15:24,109 --> 00:15:25,915 JERRY: I know. BECKY: Crazy. 254 00:15:36,840 --> 00:15:38,542 JERRY: (INAUDIBLE) suck trying to get a word 255 00:15:38,542 --> 00:15:41,875 to describe. When I go to work, Angus, 256 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:45,131 go, know what's in the way. 257 00:15:48,123 --> 00:15:50,613 SPEAKER 3: Mathrew 26:41. 258 00:15:52,730 --> 00:15:55,865 Watch and pray that you enter not into temptation. 259 00:15:56,845 --> 00:16:00,130 The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. 260 00:16:02,418 --> 00:16:05,447 BARAH: There's a lot of sex shops, there's (INAUDIBLE) shops like... 261 00:16:05,447 --> 00:16:07,715 BECKY: Sex shop, I've never heard of that. 262 00:16:07,835 --> 00:16:09,827 BARAH: You can go, sort of, underware 263 00:16:09,827 --> 00:16:14,345 and toys, things, but not nice things. 264 00:16:18,599 --> 00:16:21,357 SPEAKER 7: Cause they want to know about Soho (INAUDIBLE). 265 00:16:22,962 --> 00:16:25,740 TUNDE: What do you think of it? BECKY: Creepy. 266 00:16:25,740 --> 00:16:28,130 TUNDE: It's creepy. BECKY: And it seems very... 267 00:16:29,427 --> 00:16:31,509 The devil's territory. TUNDE: Serious? 268 00:16:33,440 --> 00:16:37,174 LEAH: We've never seen anything like this. It's hard to understand 269 00:16:37,174 --> 00:16:41,610 how people can be so open about something, which is so sinful. 270 00:16:42,243 --> 00:16:45,541 SABRINA: If you did have a boyfriend, you'd be able to have physical contact 271 00:16:45,541 --> 00:16:48,188 with him then. Or would it just be, unless you know, 272 00:16:48,188 --> 00:16:51,191 you're going to get married him. BECKY: Well, I wouldn't want to 273 00:16:51,191 --> 00:16:53,565 ruin (INAUDIBLE) until we get married. SABRINA: Yeah. 274 00:16:53,565 --> 00:16:56,224 BECKY: My first kiss would be (INAUDIBLE). SABRINA: OK. 275 00:16:56,224 --> 00:16:59,640 I actually agree. BECKY: Yeah. 276 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:00,547 SABRINA: But it's just like the way of living here, 277 00:17:00,547 --> 00:17:03,558 It's just a bit... BECKY: It's so... 278 00:17:03,558 --> 00:17:07,160 SABRINA: It's a bit more laid back. BECKY: Like do you have sexual relations 279 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:11,705 with the person you're dating? TUNDE: What, before the marriage? 280 00:17:11,705 --> 00:17:15,220 BECKY: Yeah. TUNDE: (INAUDIBLE) 281 00:17:19,435 --> 00:17:22,771 LEAH: For us, Amish, we keep mixing between the sexes 282 00:17:22,771 --> 00:17:25,231 to a minimum. We worked separately. 283 00:17:25,717 --> 00:17:28,952 Men doing the men's jobs, the women doing the women's. 284 00:17:29,980 --> 00:17:32,316 JERRY: I think the wife should stay at home, 285 00:17:32,316 --> 00:17:34,197 take care of the kids, do the housework. 286 00:17:34,575 --> 00:17:37,376 BECKY: The woman is supposed to reverence her husband. 287 00:17:37,376 --> 00:17:40,150 JERRY: I think every man wants a wife that respects him 288 00:17:40,483 --> 00:17:45,611 and wants to do what he wants her to do. BECKY: It's not because 289 00:17:45,611 --> 00:17:49,450 your husband deserves it, it's because you're honoring God 290 00:17:49,450 --> 00:17:51,853 and it's his design, and it's wonderful. 291 00:17:53,243 --> 00:17:56,282 LEAH: Sometimes we get together to play a game of volleyball. 292 00:17:56,735 --> 00:18:00,950 It's at times like these, the boys might ask the girl on a date. 293 00:18:00,572 --> 00:18:02,416 BECKY: I would imagine, I would probably be nervous, 294 00:18:02,416 --> 00:18:06,820 on my first date. I guess it would depend on 295 00:18:06,820 --> 00:18:09,952 if I knew the guy a lot, I don't know. I don't imagine, 296 00:18:09,952 --> 00:18:14,643 I'd probably be nervous. (INAUDIBLE) know, maybe I wouldn't. 297 00:18:15,220 --> 00:18:18,937 LEAH: Some Amish groups practice bundling. The tradition of going to bed 298 00:18:18,937 --> 00:18:22,772 fully clothed with your date. But sexual intercourse is forbidden. 299 00:18:23,450 --> 00:18:27,288 Others practice the hands-off rule. No touching or kissing 300 00:18:27,288 --> 00:18:31,575 until you're married. We like to keep all temptations at Bay. 301 00:18:32,505 --> 00:18:36,159 I think basically, everyone's probably tempted 302 00:18:36,159 --> 00:18:40,631 with impure thoughts. And I have often heard the expression that 303 00:18:41,609 --> 00:18:44,719 you can't help. if a bird sits on your head, 304 00:18:45,911 --> 00:18:48,629 which you can't help, what thoughts come into your mind. 305 00:18:48,629 --> 00:18:51,343 But then it goes on to say, but you can help it, 306 00:18:51,343 --> 00:18:53,870 if the bird's making a nest on the top of your head. 307 00:18:54,416 --> 00:18:58,240 For us, marital union is considered most sacred. 308 00:19:00,377 --> 00:19:03,280 In Sabrina's house, there is no father at home. 309 00:19:03,776 --> 00:19:06,961 Her mom, Julie, has brought up the children single-handed. 310 00:19:10,287 --> 00:19:14,458 BECKY: Were your children very small when you became a single mom. 311 00:19:14,738 --> 00:19:18,192 JULIE: There wasn't that young. They were about four or five. 312 00:19:19,189 --> 00:19:22,016 BECKY: Would you say you preferred that to being married? 313 00:19:23,083 --> 00:19:25,172 JULIE: Yeah. I mean, when you're on your own, 314 00:19:25,172 --> 00:19:29,758 you don't get hassles. I'll go clubbing with my friends. 315 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,618 You might call it a disco. It's where you dance. 316 00:19:34,253 --> 00:19:38,666 So I just go out and like the music and dance. yeah. 317 00:19:39,128 --> 00:19:42,375 BECKY: Like do (INAUDIBLE) Sabrina does she ever see her dad? 318 00:19:42,839 --> 00:19:45,325 JULIE: Yeah, they see their dad. That's fine. 319 00:19:45,325 --> 00:19:48,117 There's no problem there. We've always got on really well. 320 00:19:50,092 --> 00:19:52,836 BECKY: But what do you think about divorce? 321 00:19:53,304 --> 00:19:55,878 JULIE: This is why I think I haven't been married yet, 322 00:19:55,878 --> 00:19:59,939 is because when I meet someone, I want to make sure they're faithful. 323 00:20:00,014 --> 00:20:01,445 BECKY: So why aren't you married? JULIE: Sorry. 324 00:20:01,445 --> 00:20:03,206 BECKY: You weren't re-married? JULIE: No. 325 00:20:03,206 --> 00:20:04,887 BECKY: Oh, OK. JULIE: As I've said, 326 00:20:04,887 --> 00:20:08,056 I won't until I'm at 100% sure. BECKY: I didn't realize that. 327 00:20:14,810 --> 00:20:16,537 Sorry. JULIE: It's nothing. 328 00:20:24,792 --> 00:20:29,348 BECKY: Galatians 5:19 and now the works that the flesh 329 00:20:29,348 --> 00:20:34,036 are manifest, which are these, adultery, fornication, uncleanness, 330 00:20:34,507 --> 00:20:38,356 lasciviousness, idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, 331 00:20:39,060 --> 00:20:41,143 emulations, wrath, strife, 332 00:20:41,143 --> 00:20:44,577 that they, which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. 333 00:20:44,855 --> 00:20:50,852 Maybe those people don't really know what it is to have 334 00:20:50,852 --> 00:20:54,247 a pure adult-like teenage life, like before you get married. 335 00:20:54,735 --> 00:20:58,868 And I don't, I think, I definitely think it's worth it. 336 00:20:59,594 --> 00:21:03,025 It's worth not getting involved in sexual relations 337 00:21:03,025 --> 00:21:04,416 before you're married. 338 00:21:09,409 --> 00:21:11,940 I don't know, it just makes me really sad. 339 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:20,753 LEAH: Our new group of friends 340 00:21:20,753 --> 00:21:25,116 want to show us what they're most into. They tell us it's something 341 00:21:25,116 --> 00:21:28,541 they do for fun, but it's also a big part of their lives. 342 00:21:32,455 --> 00:21:34,776 RYAN: You (INAUDIBLE). 343 00:21:35,498 --> 00:21:37,829 Come let's go, let's go, let's go, let's get ready. 344 00:21:37,829 --> 00:21:39,691 Are you sitting there, come let's get up. 345 00:21:39,691 --> 00:21:41,653 Let's get ready, let's get ready to dance. 346 00:21:43,077 --> 00:21:44,814 We're dancing, Yemi. 347 00:21:51,925 --> 00:21:57,277 (HIP HOP BEATS PLAYING) 348 00:22:34,263 --> 00:22:40,228 LEAH: Most Amish, don't listen to music or dance unless it glorifies God. 349 00:22:43,205 --> 00:22:45,790 And we certainly never do anything on show. 350 00:22:45,790 --> 00:22:51,266 To do so revealed a lack of humility and pride is a Cardinal sin. 351 00:23:12,388 --> 00:23:14,520 SABRINA: You look a bit shocked, all of you. 352 00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,639 (CROSSTALK). RYAN: It's probably not the same 353 00:23:16,639 --> 00:23:18,946 as what you are used to. You know,(INAUDIBLE) 354 00:23:18,946 --> 00:23:21,863 seen or heard of any type of dance. (CROSSTALK). 355 00:23:23,376 --> 00:23:26,023 SABRINA: Did you like it? BECKY: I don't know. 356 00:23:26,549 --> 00:23:28,878 (INAUDIBLE) have to decide yet. LEAH: I don't think, I've ever seen 357 00:23:28,878 --> 00:23:31,494 people dancing like that to some music. 358 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,062 ANDREW: I don't associate with people like this, you know, 359 00:23:41,062 --> 00:23:43,895 that much. So it's like, a new thing for me 360 00:23:44,148 --> 00:23:47,110 and not too sure about it all. 361 00:23:48,133 --> 00:23:54,488 (SPEAKS FOREIGN LANGUAGE) 362 00:24:27,335 --> 00:24:30,139 LEAH: The kids we're staying with have just been showing us, 363 00:24:30,139 --> 00:24:32,891 their street dance with the pumping music, 364 00:24:32,891 --> 00:24:35,527 and jerky movements. It couldn't be further 365 00:24:35,527 --> 00:24:38,050 from our slow paced, Amish way of life. 366 00:24:41,078 --> 00:24:44,379 BECKY: I was really curious, what made you start this group. 367 00:24:44,379 --> 00:24:47,873 TUKS: Well, passing it to me, obviously, it's made a big difference 368 00:24:47,873 --> 00:24:51,387 in my life, a big difference. I used to just, hang around 369 00:24:51,387 --> 00:24:55,277 on the block with my friends. But now, obviously, 370 00:24:55,277 --> 00:24:57,734 I have something to do. Before, I was just, 371 00:24:57,734 --> 00:25:00,515 I used to squeeze my time. I was quite a bad kid 372 00:25:00,515 --> 00:25:05,255 but obviously when I started dancing, like, my mind just went elsewhere. 373 00:25:05,919 --> 00:25:08,185 I think if I wasn't dancing, I don't think, 374 00:25:08,185 --> 00:25:13,909 I'd be where I am with my education, jobwise, with my family, 375 00:25:14,367 --> 00:25:17,170 I think I'll probably would have been kicked out by my house by now. 376 00:25:17,170 --> 00:25:20,638 Dance has actually, made the biggest difference in my life. 377 00:25:21,754 --> 00:25:23,991 It saved me. (LAUGHTER) 378 00:25:24,369 --> 00:25:27,624 BECKY: It seems kind of like, I don't know, a noble thing to do 379 00:25:27,624 --> 00:25:33,144 to, you know, just keep out of trouble, like he's. 380 00:25:33,451 --> 00:25:36,055 I'm impressed. (LAUGHTER) 381 00:25:36,055 --> 00:25:38,432 I was wondering if it makes you a little tired? 382 00:25:39,587 --> 00:25:41,839 SABRINA: You see us after. (LAUGHTER). 383 00:25:41,839 --> 00:25:44,084 Is it like, oh my gosh, that is so hot. 384 00:25:44,659 --> 00:25:47,517 LEAH: At the end of the week, our friends are performing 385 00:25:47,517 --> 00:25:50,547 at the memorial of Tuks' 14-year-old friend, David, 386 00:25:51,053 --> 00:25:54,030 who got killed last year in the park, opposite his home. 387 00:25:54,846 --> 00:25:58,425 Tuks is keen that we meet David's mom, before the gathering. 388 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,650 GRACE: Hello everyone. Please to meet you, everyone. 389 00:26:03,650 --> 00:26:06,930 You look so lovely. Please to meet you, darling. 390 00:26:06,930 --> 00:26:09,107 LEAH: I'm Leah. GRACE: OK, what's the name? 391 00:26:09,107 --> 00:26:10,490 BECKY: Becky. GRACE: Becky. 392 00:26:10,728 --> 00:26:14,867 Come inside, yes. Have you a seat. 393 00:26:16,123 --> 00:26:19,128 BECKY: Is that a family picture of like your boys? 394 00:26:19,262 --> 00:26:21,447 GRACE: Yes. That's Frank. 395 00:26:21,677 --> 00:26:24,129 Yeah, this is David. That's him. 396 00:26:25,490 --> 00:26:29,053 If I could ask you this, is there any violence in your community? 397 00:26:29,714 --> 00:26:32,196 LEON: I don't think so, no. GRACE: OK. 398 00:26:32,196 --> 00:26:34,222 LEAH: Not at all. JERRY: I've never heard of it, 399 00:26:34,222 --> 00:26:36,380 in our town. GRACE: Good. 400 00:26:37,662 --> 00:26:40,305 BECKY: Like one Amish man wouldn't do that to another. 401 00:26:41,665 --> 00:26:44,429 LEAH: In Amish communities, there is no crime. 402 00:26:45,459 --> 00:26:49,554 Our upbringing is strict. We are brought up to value our community, 403 00:26:50,078 --> 00:26:54,966 to love our neighbor and our enemy. We don't believe in violence, 404 00:26:55,470 --> 00:27:00,516 war or confrontation. SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 15:1, 405 00:27:01,113 --> 00:27:06,688 a soft answer, turneth away wrath, but grievous words stir up anger. 406 00:27:08,485 --> 00:27:13,062 GRACE: What happened last year was a shock, 407 00:27:13,787 --> 00:27:18,518 for I and my family. It was a big shock. 408 00:27:19,161 --> 00:27:23,898 He left for the school that day. He had his breakfast and he left. 409 00:27:24,438 --> 00:27:27,435 He came back from school. He went to the park. 410 00:27:27,803 --> 00:27:31,221 They're a group of boys, like 12, 12 of them. 411 00:27:31,566 --> 00:27:37,731 And this one that stab him, he just went to him, straight away 412 00:27:37,731 --> 00:27:41,195 and just stab him. There's no confrontation, 413 00:27:41,195 --> 00:27:46,318 like fighting, like argue or anything. It's 20 seconds he has been there, 414 00:27:46,318 --> 00:27:48,706 and run back, quick. It's 20 seconds. 415 00:27:48,981 --> 00:27:53,900 That 20 second, the damage had been done. The knife went deep, 416 00:27:54,539 --> 00:28:00,849 very deep into his heart. About 9cm deep into his heart. 417 00:28:01,954 --> 00:28:05,731 David was taken to the hospital but a ambulance. 418 00:28:06,151 --> 00:28:10,225 And he was there for 20 days. BECKY: 20 days. 419 00:28:10,225 --> 00:28:14,660 GRACE: Yes, and he struggle a lot. You see, that boy is a fighter. 420 00:28:14,908 --> 00:28:19,003 He struggled to survive. He struggled for his life to survive. 421 00:28:19,003 --> 00:28:22,659 But unfortunately, the knife have done a great damage 422 00:28:22,659 --> 00:28:26,900 in his body. So, that was how we lost David. 423 00:28:28,226 --> 00:28:32,127 So, it's such a great loss but my believe is that, 424 00:28:32,957 --> 00:28:36,368 I'm going to see my boy again. That is it. 425 00:28:36,368 --> 00:28:40,233 That is what keeps me going because I'm going to see him again. 426 00:28:59,032 --> 00:29:02,498 JERRY: It's pretty sad that such a young life was taken. 427 00:29:08,700 --> 00:29:12,404 Hopefully, we can... it helped her pass her day well, 428 00:29:12,404 --> 00:29:17,770 since we were with her. LEAH: Like us, our London friends, 429 00:29:17,770 --> 00:29:21,512 believe David will go to heaven. They are Christians too. 430 00:29:22,369 --> 00:29:26,496 Well, not all the group. Bahar's family is Muslim. 431 00:29:27,359 --> 00:29:30,188 She wants to show us, how the Muslims worship. 432 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:34,337 BECKY: If you believe in other gods, other than Jesus, 433 00:29:36,313 --> 00:29:40,814 those are all a trick by the devil. There is only one God. 434 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:57,624 SPEAKER 3: Proverbs 1, my son if sinners entice thee, 435 00:29:58,132 --> 00:30:02,120 consent thy not. Walk thy not thou in the way with them. 436 00:30:02,579 --> 00:30:07,903 Refrain thy foot from their path. LEAH: Back home, 437 00:30:07,903 --> 00:30:11,495 we're all God-fearing Christians, and we've never experienced the faith 438 00:30:11,688 --> 00:30:16,435 other than our own. BECKY: What are they bowing down to? 439 00:30:16,749 --> 00:30:21,572 BAHAR: Allah, God. LEAH: Do they pray anywhere else? 440 00:30:22,543 --> 00:30:26,896 BAHAR: In their houses, they pray. JERRY: Why are their only men here? 441 00:30:28,130 --> 00:30:30,500 BAHAR: The men and women can't pray together. 442 00:30:31,184 --> 00:30:33,787 JERRY: Are people praying here all day long? 443 00:30:34,744 --> 00:30:38,799 BAHAR: No, there's set time. They pray five times a day. 444 00:30:41,424 --> 00:30:43,079 SPEAKER 8: The First Mosque, we believe in the world, 445 00:30:43,079 --> 00:30:47,279 was created by Abraham, in Mecca. And this is where Mohammed, 446 00:30:47,279 --> 00:30:50,420 Peace be upon Him, was born. The directions of all the Mosques, 447 00:30:50,667 --> 00:30:53,296 is towards Mecca. So, we pray in the direction of Mecca. 448 00:30:53,994 --> 00:30:56,281 Mecca is in the Middle-East, in Saudi Arabia. 449 00:30:56,566 --> 00:30:59,353 There's a place called Mecca. LEAH: Is it towards the East? 450 00:30:59,353 --> 00:31:01,982 SPEAKER 8: Towards the East. And we believe, all prophets 451 00:31:01,982 --> 00:31:04,216 were normal human beings, they were men. 452 00:31:04,216 --> 00:31:05,986 BECKY: So, you don't believe that Jesus was God. 453 00:31:05,986 --> 00:31:08,685 SPEAKER: We believe he was a prophet. That Jesus was a prophet 454 00:31:08,685 --> 00:31:11,262 like all other prophets. We believe that 455 00:31:11,262 --> 00:31:13,063 he did not die on the cross. 456 00:31:19,139 --> 00:31:23,561 BECKY: Do you think that, he's different form the God that 457 00:31:23,864 --> 00:31:25,896 Christians believe in? SPEAKER 8: No, we believe 458 00:31:25,896 --> 00:31:28,817 there's only one God. We believe there's only one God. 459 00:31:29,037 --> 00:31:31,550 And it's just people have different names for Him, 460 00:31:31,550 --> 00:31:34,038 and people have different ways of worshiping Him. 461 00:31:34,038 --> 00:31:37,436 BECKY: It was very interesting to learn about the way Muslims... 462 00:31:40,628 --> 00:31:43,411 about their beliefs and everything. I'm glad we went, 463 00:31:43,732 --> 00:31:47,773 just to observe and to see. But it was the first time, 464 00:31:47,773 --> 00:31:51,862 I talked to either like a Muslim or anybody 465 00:31:51,862 --> 00:31:56,510 that has a different faith. I kind of just thought about 466 00:31:56,510 --> 00:32:00,727 like why are there so many different religions, 467 00:32:00,991 --> 00:32:02,955 so many different faiths in the world. 468 00:32:03,285 --> 00:32:06,004 I mean, how do people know which is the right one? 469 00:32:07,438 --> 00:32:10,086 JERRY: We found out what kind of a religion they have. 470 00:32:11,043 --> 00:32:15,189 It's not unlike ours, except they don't believe 471 00:32:15,189 --> 00:32:21,011 that Jesus is the son of God. They believe in some other guy. 472 00:32:22,222 --> 00:32:26,460 There is a lot of similarities. It was interesting 473 00:32:26,460 --> 00:32:29,948 and kind of cool, I think. LEAH: For Jerry, 474 00:32:30,179 --> 00:32:32,568 looking at another faith and set of values, 475 00:32:32,740 --> 00:32:36,304 is the reminder of the crucial life decisions, he needs to make. 476 00:32:39,766 --> 00:32:43,627 Like many Amish teenagers, Jerry is on, what's called Rumspringa 477 00:32:44,001 --> 00:32:47,340 or a running around period. Only some Amish groups 478 00:32:47,541 --> 00:32:51,305 acknowledge this window of opportunity. And for those that do, 479 00:32:51,667 --> 00:32:54,461 their 16th birthday is an exciting landmark. 480 00:32:55,590 --> 00:32:59,995 JERRY: Alright, boys, let's go. LEAH: For the first time in their lives, 481 00:32:59,995 --> 00:33:02,021 they're allowed to go and explore the world 482 00:33:02,021 --> 00:33:05,317 outside their Amish community. This can mean anything 483 00:33:05,780 --> 00:33:08,694 from giving up their Amish clothes, their horse and bodice, 484 00:33:09,044 --> 00:33:11,444 and doing things that other teenagers do. 485 00:33:12,064 --> 00:33:16,005 Like driving a car, using electricity and watching TV 486 00:33:16,328 --> 00:33:20,095 to really letting their hair down, drinking alcohol and smoking 487 00:33:20,095 --> 00:33:24,142 with non-Amish friends. Jerry is 23. 488 00:33:24,580 --> 00:33:27,513 He's been enjoying, running around now for a long time, 489 00:33:28,067 --> 00:33:32,054 but he needs to make up his mind, whether to give up the modern world, 490 00:33:32,484 --> 00:33:36,597 be baptized and become Amish for the rest of his life or not. 491 00:33:37,386 --> 00:33:39,856 It's a torturous decision for him to make. 492 00:33:43,049 --> 00:33:46,949 BAHAR: What happens like when you decide to finish? 493 00:33:48,565 --> 00:33:50,743 JERRY: Once if I go back to the Amish? 494 00:33:50,743 --> 00:33:52,755 BAHAR: Yeah. JERRY: Then I have to like, 495 00:33:53,599 --> 00:33:58,656 sell my car, sell my TV, radio, phone, everything. 496 00:33:58,964 --> 00:34:00,993 BAHAR: Does that mean, thinking of like, 497 00:34:01,291 --> 00:34:04,740 become a Sheik Muslim. There's a lot of things in my life, 498 00:34:04,740 --> 00:34:11,599 like my modern name, dancing, like going out, 499 00:34:11,886 --> 00:34:15,223 I'll have to stop all of that. JERRY: So, you're kind of like me, 500 00:34:15,223 --> 00:34:18,278 right now. You're having your Rumspringa. 501 00:34:19,262 --> 00:34:23,947 Do you feel like you should do that? You feel, that's what you want. 502 00:34:24,185 --> 00:34:26,067 BAHAR: I really want to. JERRY: You really want to 503 00:34:26,067 --> 00:34:28,963 but you're afraid, you can't. BAHAR: Yeah, that's the one. 504 00:34:28,963 --> 00:34:31,910 JERRY: Life isn't easy, is it? BAHAR: No, not at all. 505 00:34:37,405 --> 00:34:40,019 SABRINA: Know this, that thing on... What's that called? 506 00:34:40,728 --> 00:34:42,839 LEAH: We call it at home, we call it a cap. 507 00:34:42,839 --> 00:34:45,058 SABRINA: A cap. LEAH: (INAUDIBLE) 508 00:34:45,058 --> 00:34:46,642 SABRINA: Cover what? LEAH: Covering. 509 00:34:46,642 --> 00:34:48,581 SABRINA: And what do you wear that for? 510 00:34:49,018 --> 00:34:52,338 LEAH: The Bible, it talks about the women, you know, being covered. 511 00:34:52,338 --> 00:34:55,057 SABRINA: Aliright, OK. LEAH: It's like a symbol of submission. 512 00:34:55,057 --> 00:34:57,178 SABRINA: OK. How long is your hair then? 513 00:34:58,368 --> 00:35:00,831 BAHAR: It's really long. SABRINA: Wow, it's down there. 514 00:35:00,831 --> 00:35:02,900 LEAH: Yeah. SABRINA: Wow, that is long. 515 00:35:02,900 --> 00:35:05,159 LEAH: We don't cut our hair. SABRINA: Oh, you don't cut it. 516 00:35:05,929 --> 00:35:08,453 'Cause we cut out hair, all the time as you can see. 517 00:35:08,703 --> 00:35:10,925 Would you ever dye your hair a different color? 518 00:35:10,925 --> 00:35:13,580 I never wished for a different color of hair, really. 519 00:35:26,996 --> 00:35:29,240 BECKY: So gross. (GIGGLES) 520 00:35:29,879 --> 00:35:32,341 BAHAR: Looks like witches hands. BECKY: Looks like claws. 521 00:35:32,341 --> 00:35:35,534 LEAH: Like claws or something. BECKY: It smells really bad in hear. 522 00:35:38,759 --> 00:35:41,763 Why would you come in here and get stuff on your nails? 523 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,026 SABRINA: I wanna get it done because I like the way it looks. 524 00:35:45,026 --> 00:35:49,276 Normally, I'd get white (INAUDIBLE), but I decided to get black. 525 00:35:50,175 --> 00:35:53,492 When I first got it done, couldn't do that, (INAUDIBLE). 526 00:35:55,847 --> 00:35:58,150 BECKY: Another thing, you couldn't milk a cow. 527 00:35:58,728 --> 00:36:00,225 LEAH: It would kick you. 528 00:36:04,506 --> 00:36:06,627 BECKY: Like how much would you normally spend? 529 00:36:06,627 --> 00:36:09,157 SABRINA: Getting my nails done cost 20GBP. 530 00:36:09,157 --> 00:36:12,294 And hair cost way more than that. 80 GBP. 531 00:36:12,726 --> 00:36:14,184 BECKY: 80 GBP? SABRINA: 80. 532 00:36:14,997 --> 00:36:16,531 LEAH: How much? BECKY: 80 GBP. 533 00:36:18,269 --> 00:36:24,707 (CROSSTALK) $120. in the US. 534 00:36:26,148 --> 00:36:27,760 SABRINA: Yeah. LEAH: That's crazy. 535 00:36:28,739 --> 00:36:33,311 LEAH: I think long nails are pretty impractical as well. 536 00:36:33,919 --> 00:36:36,951 I wouldn't want a boy to notice my beautiful heart, 537 00:36:36,951 --> 00:36:40,980 instead of going on outward appearance. It wouldn't be 538 00:36:40,980 --> 00:36:44,642 a very good foundation to start a marriage relationship. 539 00:36:45,723 --> 00:36:50,719 SPEAKER 3: 1 Peter 3:3, let it not be that outward adorning, 540 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,647 of plating the hair, and of wearing of gold, 541 00:36:53,934 --> 00:36:55,680 or of putting on of apparel. 542 00:36:56,380 --> 00:37:01,935 (SPIRITUAL SONGS) 543 00:37:01,935 --> 00:37:04,566 LEAH: Amish girls are not into makeup or jewelery. 544 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,404 We don't pain our nails or cut our hair. 545 00:37:07,982 --> 00:37:10,799 We believe the way God made us is the way we should be. 546 00:37:11,787 --> 00:37:15,375 ANDREW: I guess if I see a girl, I look at her character, 547 00:37:15,375 --> 00:37:17,336 just because she's beautiful on the outside, 548 00:37:17,336 --> 00:37:19,067 doesn't mean she's beautiful on the inside. 549 00:37:19,881 --> 00:37:22,539 LEAH: Our fashion is to part our hair in the middle 550 00:37:22,539 --> 00:37:26,376 and comb it back over our heads. And on formal occasions, 551 00:37:26,641 --> 00:37:30,333 to cover it with a homemade barnet. We're not concerned 552 00:37:30,333 --> 00:37:32,960 about accumulating material things for our happiness. 553 00:37:33,557 --> 00:37:37,019 Basically because I understand my life is, you know, short. 554 00:37:37,252 --> 00:37:39,730 It's going to be like a vapor amongst all the lives 555 00:37:39,730 --> 00:37:43,810 that are on the earth. I don't think I'm attached 556 00:37:43,810 --> 00:37:45,062 too much on earth. 557 00:37:47,282 --> 00:37:52,196 We don't spend time shopping for clothes. Instead, we make everything by hand. 558 00:38:02,043 --> 00:38:04,203 And you just touch your finger with the needle. 559 00:38:04,203 --> 00:38:05,888 You don't prick it or anything. You just touch it 560 00:38:05,888 --> 00:38:08,966 so you can feel that it's through. Do you think you would like 561 00:38:08,966 --> 00:38:12,031 that kind of thing? BAHAR: If I was good at it, 562 00:38:12,031 --> 00:38:16,198 I would probably (CROSSTALK). SABRINA: Am I going to this one? 563 00:38:16,198 --> 00:38:18,758 LEAH: Yeah, and then you just connect those two. 564 00:38:18,758 --> 00:38:21,581 SABRINA: Are there like, not proper goes, that sounds bad, 565 00:38:22,425 --> 00:38:24,109 but they are. BARAH: Yeah. 566 00:38:24,485 --> 00:38:27,011 SABRINA: Like the traditional girls. (CROSSTALK) traditional girls. 567 00:38:27,290 --> 00:38:29,773 BARAH: If I could do it, I probably would actually just sit there 568 00:38:29,773 --> 00:38:33,145 and try and do something. SABRINA: Cause that could be 569 00:38:33,145 --> 00:38:35,809 quite (INAUDIBLE). But I would prefer to do, 570 00:38:35,809 --> 00:38:36,886 make a quilt. 571 00:38:37,801 --> 00:38:42,148 # Oh fest, oh fest 572 00:38:42,529 --> 00:38:44,982 # To the rip 573 00:38:44,982 --> 00:38:47,617 # To the rip. # 574 00:38:47,945 --> 00:38:49,982 I love the singing. And it did remind me 575 00:38:49,982 --> 00:38:53,650 of (INAUDIBLE) films. Like where a dog would be running 576 00:38:53,650 --> 00:38:57,616 from the fields. And they'll be at home, 577 00:38:58,130 --> 00:39:00,836 like with their little black children running around, 578 00:39:01,098 --> 00:39:03,399 and then like, the mom would be in the corner 579 00:39:03,399 --> 00:39:05,900 on a rocking chair. And you could Leah like, 580 00:39:05,900 --> 00:39:08,384 she enjoys it. BARAH: Yeah. 581 00:39:09,114 --> 00:39:11,487 Nothing that they do is chore for them. 582 00:39:11,487 --> 00:39:13,796 Everything's just (CROSSTALK). 583 00:39:15,589 --> 00:39:17,773 # That you learn 584 00:39:17,773 --> 00:39:22,747 # From your mother at home. # 585 00:39:24,583 --> 00:39:26,483 That's really nice. SABRINA: Nice, so nice. 586 00:39:26,483 --> 00:39:29,183 BARAH: Yeah, it's so relaxing. SABRINA: Yeah, definitely. 587 00:39:30,487 --> 00:39:33,172 LEAH: While the girls have been having a quiet time in, 588 00:39:33,411 --> 00:39:36,254 the Amish boys have been learning how to stay in shape. 589 00:39:37,203 --> 00:39:40,087 SPEAKER: (UNKNOWN), open your legs wider, wider. 590 00:39:41,670 --> 00:39:44,547 (LAUGHTER) Try and touch your toes. 591 00:39:44,756 --> 00:39:47,496 With your legs, straight. Stay there, stay there. 592 00:39:49,634 --> 00:39:50,890 Leon, what's wrong? 593 00:39:58,574 --> 00:40:01,189 I'm sure you can get (INAUDIBLE). That was high. 594 00:40:06,272 --> 00:40:07,304 RYAN: Yeah, do you wanna take your jumper off, 595 00:40:07,304 --> 00:40:09,111 have you got something underneath? JERRY: Yeah. 596 00:40:09,111 --> 00:40:10,812 SPEAKER: Actually, leave it on just in case you drop. 597 00:40:10,812 --> 00:40:12,016 (LAUGHTER) 598 00:40:12,284 --> 00:40:14,315 Just land on your back and you'll be fine. 599 00:40:20,488 --> 00:40:22,252 ANDREW: I think the dance group is great. 600 00:40:22,252 --> 00:40:25,250 I've been getting along great with all of them, pretty much. 601 00:40:25,250 --> 00:40:27,510 The first of the week, it was kind of awkward. 602 00:40:27,510 --> 00:40:30,486 And we're just now at the stage that we're really getting to know them. 603 00:40:30,486 --> 00:40:33,097 We can have a blast. 604 00:40:38,669 --> 00:40:41,786 SPEAKER 8: I've noticed that the Amish, are very positive people. 605 00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,117 They always have a smile on their face. 606 00:40:44,117 --> 00:40:46,010 But even in London, we're not open 607 00:40:46,010 --> 00:40:48,663 to try anything new. We like to do what we know. 608 00:40:48,663 --> 00:40:51,568 But I think they like to just give anything a try. 609 00:40:58,699 --> 00:41:00,848 BECKY: It's definitely a different experience 610 00:41:01,390 --> 00:41:04,832 to live in the city. I'm not the type of person 611 00:41:04,832 --> 00:41:08,089 that will want to live in the city. But I still admire 612 00:41:08,479 --> 00:41:11,427 the family we're staying with. 'Cause they seem to be content 613 00:41:11,427 --> 00:41:14,904 even if they have a small house. I guess it teaches me, 614 00:41:14,904 --> 00:41:18,059 not to take for granted, what we have back at home. 615 00:41:19,219 --> 00:41:22,299 LEAH: The houses are really small and tiny. 616 00:41:22,847 --> 00:41:24,544 And they might not have all the space 617 00:41:24,544 --> 00:41:27,513 that they wish for. I'm inspired 618 00:41:27,513 --> 00:41:32,438 and I think I can learn from them, to appreciate what I have, 619 00:41:33,387 --> 00:41:36,363 and make the best of it and enjoy life, anyway. 620 00:41:38,258 --> 00:41:45,409 So, it's been a good week so far and I've enjoyed my time 621 00:41:45,409 --> 00:41:46,693 with these people. 622 00:41:52,132 --> 00:41:56,080 Today is the memorial service for Tuks' friend, David Idowu. 623 00:41:56,828 --> 00:42:00,297 Grace, David's mother, is holding this community gathering, 624 00:42:00,468 --> 00:42:03,553 in the park where David was killed. To send out a message 625 00:42:03,553 --> 00:42:09,038 that street crime has to end. As Amish, we've never experienced anything 626 00:42:09,038 --> 00:42:11,454 like this before. PASTOR: We pray also again, 627 00:42:11,454 --> 00:42:13,983 that the memory of David, will continue to live, 628 00:42:13,983 --> 00:42:15,980 in the name of Jesus. CONGREGATION: Amen. 629 00:42:15,980 --> 00:42:18,204 LEAH: But we want to do what we can to help. 630 00:42:20,182 --> 00:42:23,916 GRAE: Last year, I lost my boy. 14-year-old boy. 631 00:42:24,212 --> 00:42:27,413 Coming to this park, just to come and play with his friend. 632 00:42:28,109 --> 00:42:32,579 Knife crime is destroying family. is destroying the whole community. 633 00:42:33,050 --> 00:42:36,421 We need to come together to join hands together. 634 00:42:36,690 --> 00:42:39,747 JERRY: I think it's a good thing like something like this does happen 635 00:42:39,747 --> 00:42:42,011 that people get together and try to stop it. 636 00:42:42,011 --> 00:42:45,143 I think that's great. The Amish don't come together 637 00:42:45,143 --> 00:42:47,926 to try to change everybody, anybody's opinion 638 00:42:47,926 --> 00:42:51,957 because everybody's like kind of lives the same. 639 00:42:52,242 --> 00:42:55,827 They have the same rules, and everybody goes by those rules. 640 00:42:55,975 --> 00:43:01,691 So, everybody is kinda thinks alike. Being in the city made me realize, 641 00:43:02,008 --> 00:43:04,581 a little bit about how good it is to be Amish, 642 00:43:04,581 --> 00:43:08,952 and know that you're actually safe and don't have to worry 643 00:43:08,952 --> 00:43:11,089 about being robbed or anything like that. 644 00:43:13,951 --> 00:43:16,605 LEAH: Our street dance friends have agreed to perform. 645 00:43:16,605 --> 00:43:19,291 And knowing how we like to sing, they've suggested, 646 00:43:19,291 --> 00:43:21,279 we might get up on stage and join in. 647 00:43:21,860 --> 00:43:24,862 As humble, slow-pace people, being on show 648 00:43:24,862 --> 00:43:28,259 is something we never normally do. This is our first time 649 00:43:28,472 --> 00:43:29,919 to perform on stage. 650 00:43:33,152 --> 00:43:36,538 # Let's come together 651 00:43:39,225 --> 00:43:44,066 # Let's live as one 652 00:43:45,620 --> 00:43:50,055 # Let's stay together 653 00:43:51,620 --> 00:43:56,254 # And mean that we can save a life # 654 00:43:56,698 --> 00:43:59,484 BECKY: I had sang in a choir a couple of times before 655 00:43:59,484 --> 00:44:02,254 but this was quite a new experience for me to sing 656 00:44:02,599 --> 00:44:05,561 in front of a crowd. I was very nervous 657 00:44:05,561 --> 00:44:08,921 but I guess it went OK. 658 00:44:09,257 --> 00:44:14,256 # Let's come together 659 00:44:15,639 --> 00:44:19,952 # Let's live as one. # 660 00:44:20,676 --> 00:44:25,011 SPEAKER 5: It's very moving when they sang cause I've only really heard them sing 661 00:44:25,011 --> 00:44:27,690 like in the morning when they're walking through the house 662 00:44:27,690 --> 00:44:31,065 and never seen them out there in front of so many people. 663 00:44:31,564 --> 00:44:34,450 So to do this in front of people they've never known before, 664 00:44:34,450 --> 00:44:36,956 I think it was really good for them to do that. 665 00:44:38,604 --> 00:44:41,142 LEAH: It seems like the British enjoy performing 666 00:44:41,414 --> 00:44:44,234 and being center stage. Singing in the group, 667 00:44:44,523 --> 00:44:48,841 gave us a newfound confidence. Well, not quite all of us. 668 00:44:49,543 --> 00:44:51,539 The boys decided, being in the limelight, 669 00:44:51,805 --> 00:44:55,109 wasn't for them. But this week has encouraged us 670 00:44:55,109 --> 00:44:59,730 to do things we've never done before. RYAN: Two, three, four. 671 00:45:00,290 --> 00:45:02,983 BECKY: When I first observed and watched the dance group, 672 00:45:02,983 --> 00:45:05,471 I wasn't sure that it was something I would support. 673 00:45:05,471 --> 00:45:07,904 I admire them for choosing something else 674 00:45:08,158 --> 00:45:12,084 than being out there in a gang and actually being a violent person. 675 00:45:12,582 --> 00:45:16,947 I think they've made a noble choice. They've welcomed our group 676 00:45:17,740 --> 00:45:21,395 just like we were one of them and I think we can learn from them 677 00:45:21,395 --> 00:45:23,388 in that way. RYAN: Seven, eight. 678 00:45:24,516 --> 00:45:30,945 One, two, three, four. (LAUGHTER) 679 00:45:31,737 --> 00:45:34,049 ANDREW: They live in the city and I live in the country. 680 00:45:34,049 --> 00:45:38,090 They play video games and watch TV, 681 00:45:38,090 --> 00:45:41,457 and I'm out in the barn, playing with horses. 682 00:45:43,113 --> 00:45:46,551 But I think it's great that, two people that much different 683 00:45:47,062 --> 00:45:48,927 can still get together and have a blast. 684 00:45:49,028 --> 00:45:51,913 LEON: Hey, I've got an idea. Now try. 685 00:45:52,423 --> 00:45:56,234 (LAUGHTER) 686 00:45:56,392 --> 00:46:00,929 SABRINA: Materialistic things, in my life, like hair and nails, 687 00:46:01,301 --> 00:46:03,084 worrying about which clothes I'm gonna wear, 688 00:46:03,084 --> 00:46:05,992 I've learned that, is not really that important, anyway. 689 00:46:06,792 --> 00:46:10,087 RYAN: One, two, three. Four, five, six, seven eight. 690 00:46:12,036 --> 00:46:15,615 LEON: I wasn't gonna do it but I'm glad I did. 691 00:46:17,156 --> 00:46:19,906 I found that it kind of lift your spirit a little it. 692 00:46:19,906 --> 00:46:24,824 I guess I'm kind of fired up, right now. I mean (LAUGHS). 693 00:46:25,362 --> 00:46:28,209 TUKS: I thought that laugh was all about money and girls, 694 00:46:28,209 --> 00:46:30,050 about money and... money and girls. 695 00:46:31,248 --> 00:46:33,946 They've taught me that there's more to life than that. 696 00:46:33,946 --> 00:46:37,335 BECKY: I know, I'm going to miss them. Just there, 697 00:46:37,335 --> 00:46:41,985 thinking of living in the city and, hey it actually wasn't that bad. 698 00:46:45,513 --> 00:46:48,525 LEAH: Next, we're staying with some teenagers in Kent. 699 00:46:49,328 --> 00:46:52,747 SPEAKER: They look kinda like they're not very clean. 700 00:46:53,019 --> 00:46:55,351 LEAH: We hear they have a love for music. 701 00:46:56,112 --> 00:46:58,270 I guess, it was like a shock to my body. 702 00:46:58,270 --> 00:47:03,235 My first instinct was to plug my ears which was not a good idea (LAUGHS). 703 00:47:03,906 --> 00:47:06,017 BECKY: I think rock music is considered evil. 704 00:47:06,311 --> 00:47:08,917 It does something to your body that I don't really like. 705 00:47:08,917 --> 00:47:11,640 LEAH: We hope they might share some of our values. 706 00:47:12,306 --> 00:47:15,149 When I see girls dressing in bikinis in front of the boys, 707 00:47:15,319 --> 00:47:18,515 I'm concerned for the girls because they don't really realize 708 00:47:18,515 --> 00:47:20,716 what kind of temptations they are creating 709 00:47:20,885 --> 00:47:22,607 SPEAKER 9: So, you're hemish. ANDREW: Amish. 710 00:47:22,607 --> 00:47:25,296 SPEAKER 9: Amish. What do you do on a daily basis? 711 00:47:25,597 --> 00:47:27,668 ANDREW: Work. (LAUGHTER) 712 00:47:28,032 --> 00:47:30,466 LEAH: And maybe we'll learn from their beliefs too. 713 00:47:30,768 --> 00:47:33,256 SPEAKER 10: Jerry and Leon, I don't like to say it 714 00:47:33,256 --> 00:47:36,675 but if they don't repent, I reckon they'll be going to hell, too. 715 00:47:36,795 --> 00:47:39,593 (LAUGHS) Cause they drink and smoke more than us. 716 00:47:39,964 --> 00:47:43,011 JERRY: We can't buy beer no more. SPEAKER 11: You're looking like 717 00:47:43,011 --> 00:47:46,827 you've a lot, anyway. (LAUGHTER) 718 00:47:55,673 --> 00:47:58,826 VOICE: Undercover with the pastors, delivering children from evil, 719 00:47:58,826 --> 00:48:02,137 Dispatches: Britain's Witch Children, tomorrow at 8:00. 720 00:48:02,720 --> 00:48:04,883 At 9:00 a new series of The Hospital, 721 00:48:05,087 --> 00:48:08,628 centers first on the sexual time bomb facing tody's teens. 722 00:48:09,553 --> 00:48:11,536 But next up, it's Big Brother.