1 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,600 - My name is Tamika Narvaez-Payne, 2 00:00:04,680 --> 00:00:07,320 and I am a student at Bakersfield College. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,600 Trying to leave an abusive relationship 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,720 after I had my children, 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,280 I was shot in the back. In a four-year period, I was shot, 6 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,040 had my throat slit, my son died, and my girls were abducted. 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:22,240 When life throws you punches, you have to keep on going. 8 00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,560 I moved to Bakersfield in 2007 and decided to start over. 9 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,920 Went for a job I totally deserved, 10 00:00:28,999 --> 00:00:30,600 and they told me I didn't have a degree, 11 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:33,280 and I couldn't have the job. 12 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,999 That very day that I left that interview, 13 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:37,999 I walked onto the campus of BC. 14 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:39,920 If you are someone with children 15 00:00:39,999 --> 00:00:41,880 or you're looking for employment 16 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,720 or you're somebody who has low- income issues, 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:46,760 you get directed in those avenues. 18 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:50,040 I felt loved and I felt accepted and I felt supported 19 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:52,400 from the moment that I walked onto the campus. 20 00:00:52,480 --> 00:00:55,080 Every resource that our campus makes available, 21 00:00:55,160 --> 00:01:00,999 I have used over and above probably what they wanted me to. 22 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:02,600 As a mother of eight children, 23 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:06,440 there would be no way to accommodate getting my child 24 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:07,999 to a childcare place. 25 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:10,680 My childcare facility is on campus. 26 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,720 That's an asset. 27 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,800 That's something that allows me to be successful. 28 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:17,520 Online learning, what I loved about it 29 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:21,280 was I could still live my life as a mom. 30 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,960 If kids need to be picked up early, 31 00:01:23,999 --> 00:01:25,720 I didn't have to leave the class. 32 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:27,560 The best thing I found out about the Bakersfield College 33 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,680 is the AA would transfer. 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,960 Mine would be communication, and I have a few colleges 35 00:01:32,999 --> 00:01:35,120 that I would like to pursue. 36 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,600 I want to fight for policy and I want to fight to make a change 37 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:48,680 in this world.